Sorry in French: 62 Ways to Apologize, Excuse Yourself & More (2023)

We all make mistakes. And, very often, communication is key to resolve a tricky situation. But what do we do if it happens abroad? Don’t worry, we have you covered — at least inFrench!

Whether you bumped into somebody on the Champs-Elysées or you forgot your rendez-vous with your Québécois friend, learning how to say sorry in French is some of the most useful vocabulary to get familiar with. Ok, maybe after thank you and you’re welcome.

From “Je suis désolé(e)” to “Toutes mes excuses” and “Excusez-moi”, we have compiled the best way to apologize in French. Pardon my French!

How to say I’m sorry in French

The proper way to say pardon me in French depends on the situation. The tables below will help you to find the most appropriate expressions to apologize:

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  • If you have hurt someone
  • If something bad happened to someone you care about
  • If you bump into, or want to get past someone
  • If you need somebody to repeat something
  • If you need to apologize in French in a professional environment

Most expressions can be used with “vous” or “tu”, but we also added the context when needed.

How to say sorry to someone you have hurt

Have you messed up? While you can’t turn back time, an apology goes a long way. And we’re here to help you out!

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EnglishFrenchIPAContext
I’m truly sorryJe suis vraiment désolé(e)ʒə sɥi vɾɛmə dezɔle(ɛ)
I’m very sorryJe suis désolé(e)ʒə sɥi dezɔle(ɛ)
I’m deeply sorryJe suis profondément désolé(e)ʒə sɥi pɾɔfõdemə dezɔle(ɛ)
I’m sincerely sorryJe suis sincèrement désolé(e)ʒə sɥi sɛ̃sɛɾəmə dezɔle(ɛ)
I feel terrible, I’m so sorryJe m’en veux, je suis vraiment désolé(e)ʒə mɑ̃ vø, ʒə sɥi vɾɛmə dezɔle(ɛ)
I’m so sorry, that was thoughtless of meJe suis vraiment désolé, c'était inconsidéré de ma part.ʒə sɥi vɾɛmə dezɔle, setɛt‿ ɛ̃kõsideɾe də ma paɾ.
I’m very sorry for the way I behavedJe suis vraiment désolé(e) de la façon dont je me suis comporté(e)ʒə sɥi vɾɛmə dezɔle də la fasõ dõ ʒə mə sɥi kõpɔɾte(ɛ).
I apologize, I was out of lineJe m'excuse, j'ai dépassé les bornesʒə mɛkskyzə, ʒe depasele bɔɾnə
I apologize for my behaviorJe m'excuse pour mon comportementʒə mɛkskyzə puɾ mõ kõpɔɾtəmə
I’m sorry, it was my faultJe suis désolé(e), c'était ma fauteʒə sɥi dezɔle(ɛ), sete ma fotə
I’m so sorry about what I didJe suis vraiment désolé(e) de ce que j'ai faitʒə sɥi vɾɛmə dezɔle(ɛ) də sə kə ʒe fe
What I did was wrongJ’ai eu tort de faire çaʒey tɔɾ də fɛɾə sa
I’m sorry I hurt youJe suis désolé(e) de t'avoir fait du malʒə sɥi dezɔle(ɛ) də tavwaɾ blɛse(ɛ)Informal
I didn’t mean to hurt youJe ne voulais pas te faire de malʒə nə vule pa tə fɛɾə də malInformal

How to say you are sorry when something bad has happened to someone you care about

Empathy is a wonderful quality, but it can be hard to convey in a foreign language. Here are a few things you can say if something bad has happened to a French speaking friend or someone you care about.

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EnglishFrenchIPAContext
I’m so sorry to hear thatJe suis vraiment désolé(e) d'entendre çaʒə sɥi vɾɛmə dezɔle(ɛ) dɑ̃tɑ̃dɾə sa
My deepest sympathiesMes sincères condoléancesme sɛ̃sɛɾə kõdɔleɑ̃səSomeone is deceased
I’m sorry that happened to youJe suis désolé(e) que cela vous soit arrivéʒə sɥi dezɔle(ɛ) kə səla vu swat‿ arive
I’m really sorry for youJe suis vraiment désolé(e) pour vousʒə sɥi vɾɛmə dezɔle(ɛ) puɾ vu
I’m devastated for youJe suis navré(e) pour vousʒə sɥi navɾe(ɛ) puɾ vu
My condolencesToutes mes condoléancestutəme kõdɔleɑ̃səSomeone is deceased
My sympathiesMes condoléancesme kõdɔleɑ̃səSomeone is deceased
I’m sorry, I’m with you with all my heartJe suis désolé(e), je suis de tout cœur avec toiʒə sɥi dezɔle(ɛ), ʒə sɥi də tu kœɾ avɛk twaInformal
I’m sorry, I’m here for youJe suis désolé, je suis là pour toiʒə sɥi dezɔle, ʒə sɥi la puɾ twaInformal

How to apologize when you bump into someone by accident or you want to get past someone blocking the way

The streets of downtown Paris or Montréal can get crowded sometimes! If you happen to bump into someone or you want to get past someone, it’s pretty easy to be polite. Just use one of the sayings below!

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EnglishFrenchIPA
Excuse me pleaseExcusez-moiɛkskyze-mwa
Sorry, can I get by?Désolé(e), je peux passer ?dezɔle(ɛ), ʒə pø pase ?
PardonPardonpaɾdõ

How to apologize when you need to ask someone to repeat something

When learning French, one of the challenges you might encounter is to understand native francophones. Don’t be shy! Ask them to repeat with the following expressions.

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EnglishFrenchIPA
Pardon?Pardon ?paɾdõ ?
Sorry I didn’t hear youDésolé(e), je n’ai pas entendudezɔle(ɛ), ʒə ne paz‿ ɑ̃tɑ̃dy
Sorry, could you please repeat that?Pourriez-vous répéter, s'il vous plaît ?purje-vu ɾepete, sil vu ple ?
I beg your pardonJe vous demande pardon ?ʒə vu dəmɑ̃də paɾdõ ?
Sorry, what did you say?Désolé(e), qu'est-ce que vous avez dit ?dezɔle(ɛ), kɛ-sə kə vuz‿ ave di ?
Sorry, I didn’t understandDésolé(e), je n'ai pas comprisdezɔle, ʒə ne pa kõpɾi

How to apologize when you have made a small mistake (that did not hurt anyone).

As we say in French, “L’erreur est humaine” (Literally, mistakes are human). For daily bloopers, keep reading!

EnglishFrenchIPA
It was my badJ’ai commis une erreurʒe kɔmiz‿ yn ɛrœɾ
I messed upJ'ai tout gâchéʒe tu gɑʃe
I was wrong and I apologizeJ'avais tort et je m'excuseʒave tɔɾt‿e ʒə mɛkskyzə
Sorry about that!Désolé(e) pour ça !dezɔle(ɛ) puɾ sa !
Whoops! Sorry!Oups ! Je suis désolé(e) !u ! ʒə sɥi dezɔle(ɛ) !
It was my faultC'est ma fautesɛ ma fotə
I’m sorryJe suis désolé(e)ʒə sɥi dezɔle(ɛ)
I apologizeJe m'excuseʒə mɛkskyzə

How to say sorry in a formal or business environment

Knowing the proper etiquette to say sorry in French is particularly important in a work environment. The expressions below will help you apologize in the most common business situations.

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EnglishFrenchIPA
Sorry for the late replyDésolé pour la réponse tardivedezɔle puɾ la ɾepõsə taɾdivə
Please forgive the lengthy delayVeuillez excuser ce long retardvœjez‿ ɛkskyze sə lõ ɾətaɾ
My apologies you didn’t receive the report you requestedToutes mes excuses pour ne pas avoir reçu le rapport que vous aviez demandétutəmez‿ ɛkskyzə puɾ nə paz‿ avwaɾ ɾəsy lə ɾapɔɾ kə vuz‿ avje dəmɑ̃de.
I apologize for the confusion…Je m'excuse pour la confusion...ʒə mɛkskyzə puɾ la kõfyzjõ...
I’m sorry to bother youJe suis désolé(e) de vous avoir dérangé(e)ʒə sɥi dezɔle(ɛ) də vuz‿ avwaɾ deɾɑ̃ʒe
Sorry I couldn’t attend the meetingDésolé(e) de ne pas avoir pu assister à la réuniondezɔle(ɛ) də nə paz‿ avwaɾ py asiste a la ɾeynjõ
Sorry, I’m lateDésolé(e) pour le retarddezɔle(ɛ) puɾ lə ɾətaɾ
I regret to inform you thatJ'ai le regret de vous informer queʒe lə ɾəgɾe də vuz‿ ɛ̃fɔɾme kə
All my excusesToutes mes excusestutəmez‿ ɛkskyzə

How to ask for forgiveness

You’ve used the expressions above to apologize? Now, it’s time to ask for forgiveness.

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EnglishFrenchIPAContext
Can you forgive me?Pourras-tu me pardonner ?pura-ty mə paɾdɔne ?Informal
How can I make it up to you?Comment puis-je me faire pardonner ?kɔmə pɥi-ʒə mə fɛɾə paɾdɔne ?
Sorry, I won’t do it again.Désolé(e), ça ne se reproduira plusdezɔle, sa nə sə ɾəpɾɔdɥiɾa ply
I’m begging you to forgive meJe vous prie de m’excuserʒə vu pɾjə də mɛkskyzeFormal
Please forgive meS'il te plaît, pardonne-moisil tə ple, paɾdɔnə-mwaInformal
I ask for your forgivenessJ’implore votre pardonʒɛ̃plɔɾə tõ paɾdõFormal
I will do anythingJe ferai n'importe quoiʒə fəɾe nɛ̃pɔɾtə kwa

How to express regret

Let’s get even more dramatic with these phrases to express regret.

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EnglishFrenchIPA
I wish I could take it backJ'aimerais pouvoir revenir en arrièreʒ(e)məɾe puvwaɾ ɾəvəniɾɑ̃n‿ arjɛɾə
I wish I hadn’t done thatJ’aimerais ne pas l’avoir faitʒ(e)məɾe nə pa lavwaɾ fe
I regret itJe le regretteʒə lə ɾəgɾɛtə
I wish I hadn’t said thatJ’aimerais ne jamais avoir dit çaʒ(e)məɾe nə ʒamɛz‿ avwaɾ di sa
I will never forgive myselfJe ne me le pardonnerai jamaisʒə nə mə lə paɾdɔnəɾe ʒame

The culture of apologizing in France

If you’re from an English speaking country such as the USA, Canada, Ireland or the United Kingdom, chances are you apologize often. Whether it is at work, on the street or with friends, think about it: How many times a day do you say “sorry” even when you’ve done nothing wrong?

While the Québécoise culture is closer to the American one, in France, it’s another story. French do not apologize very often, especially when they consider that they have nothing to apologize for. Most French will briefly apologize if they REALLY bump into you, but don’t be offended if they don’t. Nothing personal, it’s just French etiquette!

In the workplace, they might say “Ce n’est pas de ma faute” (It’s not my fault) and refuse to take responsibility for their company or their colleague.

Not sure when, or what to apologize for in French? Check out this video.

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How to accept an apology in French

Now that you know how to apologize in French, here are a couple of expressions to accept an apology from somebody else:

  • Ce n’est pas grave
  • N’en parlons plus
  • J’accepte vos/tes excuses
  • Aucun problème
  • Ne vous inquiétez pas/Ne t’inquiète pas
  • Pas de soucis

Aucun problème

If you’ve made a mistake, don’t beat yourself up. Take a deep breath and use one of the expressions you just learned! Errors happen, but the important thing is to acknowledge it and apologize. Allez, courage, ce sera vite oublié. As French singer Zazie says, Excuse-moi !

Moreover, if you’re finding joy in reading our free French vocabulary lessons via our blog, keep it up. You’ll round up your learning in so many ways – from hello’s, to goodbyes, and even some fun French slang.

À bientôt !

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FAQs

How do you say excuse yourself in French? ›

Instead of asking someone else for forgiveness, Je m'excuse literally means that you excuse/forgive yourself.

How do you say sorry in French slang? ›

Je regrette — I'm sorry (lit. “I regret it”) Veuillez m'excuser — Please excuse me/Please accept my apologies. Je vous demande pardon — I beg your pardon.

What do French people say when they make a mistake? ›

Je suis désolé(e) is a common way to apologize and express regret.

Why do Americans say excuse my French? ›

The expression originates from the 19th century, and was used literally. When English people used French expressions in conversation, they would often apologise for it, presumably because many of their listeners were not familiar with the language! Example: "Excuse my French, but that guys needs a kick in the ass!"

What are different ways to say sorry? ›

6 Unique Ways to Say “Sorry” When You Make a Mistake
  1. 1 My apologies.
  2. 2 Pardon/pardon me/I beg your pardon.
  3. 3 Excuse me.
  4. 4 Mea culpa.
  5. 5 Oops/whoops.
  6. 6 My bad.
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How do you say sorry badly? ›

How to apologize genuinely
  1. Acknowledge the offense. Take responsibility for the offense, whether it was a physical or psychological harm, and confirm that your behavior was not acceptable. ...
  2. Explain what happened. ...
  3. Express remorse. ...
  4. Offer to make amends.
Apr 13, 2021

How do you say excuse someone in French? ›

As mentioned, “excusez-moi” is the single most common way of saying “excuse me” in French. Use this phrase in all situations where you'd normally say excuse me in English. Note, however, that this is the vous-form of the phrase, used for both speaking to more than one person and to a stranger.

Do French people say excuse my French? ›

In a word, no. “Pardon my French” is an idiom exclusive to the English language, stemming from the two countries' own millennium-old beef—and not one of the bourguignon type. While the rapport between England and France has been a bit rosier in modern times, when it comes to getting along, historically, they do not.

What is considered rude to French? ›

French people tend not to visit unannounced or uninvited. To do so is considered rude. When invited to a dinner, it is common for guests to ask their hosts if they are required to bring something on the day. Guests may also bring a bottle of wine or dessert.

What is the most used French swear word? ›

Let's take a look:
  • Putain. 'Putain' is definitely the most commonly used French swear word. ...
  • Merde. 'Merde' is another popular curse word- perhaps not as popular as 'putain' but it is still used a lot. ...
  • Va te faire foutre. ...
  • Je m'en fous. ...
  • Ta gueule. ...
  • Salope/ Salaud. ...
  • Bâtard/ Bâtarde. ...
  • Niquer.
Nov 3, 2022

What is a famous French saying? ›

Mangez bien, riez souvent, aimez beaucoup.

Literal translation: “Eat well, laugh often, love a lot.” Actual meaning: “Live life to the fullest” or carpe diem (“seize the day”). Use this positive French saying to console a friend that is having a hard time.

How do you say sorry in a lovely way? ›

33 Sweet & Romantic Apology Messages for Your Love
  1. 1 “I'm so sorry.”
  2. 2 “I'm really sorry, my love.”
  3. 3 “I can't express to you how sorry I am.”
  4. 4 “I owe you an apology baby.”
  5. 5 “I made a huge mistake.”
  6. 6 “Can you forgive me?”
  7. 7 “I promise to be better.”
  8. 8 “You deserve a good partner. I know I can be that person.”
Mar 14, 2022

How do I respond to Merci? ›

The usual response to merci is de rien (You're welcome – literally, It's nothing) or il n'y a pas de quoi. In a more formal context, you could say Je vous en prie or Je t'en prie.

How do you respond to Je suis desole? ›

If someone says Desolé or Mes excuses or Je m'excuse, the standard response seems to be Ce n'est pas grave (literally, “It's not serious”). You will also hear Ne vous inquiétez pas (“Don't worry”) or N'en parlez plus (“Say nothing more about it”).

How do French people respond to Ca va? ›

As with English, French people tend to reply to Ça va? with a positive response – Bien, or Bien, merci – much the same way as we would use fine in English. The following responses are polite enough for a new acquaintance, but general enough for a good friend, too: Très bien, merci. Very well, thank you.

Is it rude to not say hello in France? ›

Skipping Hello in France – A Big Mistake

In any case, whether you use the word “bonjour” or not, you should always take the time to greet people in France. It's considered quite rude to go ahead and ask a question without first saying hello in French. Oh! And please smile !!

How do you politely decline in French? ›

Non merci (No, thank you)

Non merci is used to politely decline something: Voudriez-vous un croque-monsieur ?

What are 10 ways to say sorry? ›

So, let's go!
  • I'm sorry! The first word is I'm sorry, I'm sorry. ...
  • Sorry about that. The next word or the next phrase is sorry about that. ...
  • I'm sorry to hear… The next expression is I'm sorry to hear blah, blah, blah. ...
  • I apologize. ...
  • I'm terribly sorry about… ...
  • Oops. ...
  • Deepest apologies for… ...
  • My condolences.
Sep 23, 2019

What can I replace I'm sorry with? ›

Instead of apologizing, use phrases like '“I'd love to add,” “I think that,” or “Here's a different perspective.” These phrases help you contribute without sounding scared to do so.

What's the biggest word for sorry? ›

  • ashamed.
  • remorseful.
  • apologetic.
  • regretful.
  • repentant.
  • contrite.
  • penitent.
  • grieving.

How do you say the biggest sorry? ›

Steps for saying you're sorry
  1. Before you do anything, practise self-affirmation. It's important to start by saying a few positive words to yourself. ...
  2. Spell out why you want to apologise. ...
  3. Admit you were wrong. ...
  4. Acknowledge the other person's feelings. ...
  5. Say you're sorry. ...
  6. Ask them to forgive you.

What is a manipulative apology? ›

To keep their victims nearby, then, they'll make apologies left and right without taking any real actions to improve themselves or make amends. These are not real apologies—they are manipulation tactics. Any counselor, therapist, or psychiatrist in the world will attest that an apology without change is manipulation.

What does Excuse my French? ›

idiom old-fashioned humorous. said when you are pretending to be sorry for using a word that may be considered offensive: Pardon my French, but that's a damned shame!

What is Excusez-Moi? ›

« excusez-moi » (pour s'excuser) “I'm sorry” ⧫ “sorry”

How do you say apology in French? ›

Every apology should start with two magic words: "I'm sorry," or "I apologize." For example, you could say: "I'm sorry that I snapped at you yesterday. I feel embarrassed and ashamed by the way I acted." Your words need to be sincere and authentic .

Should I call you in French? ›

Comment dois je vous appeler ?

Do you speak French reply? ›

Imagine you are visiting France and someone asks you if you speak French . You want to answer that you speak A little.. Respond to the question. Ingrid: Parlez-vous français? (five seconds) Un petit peu.

Why do French people reply in English? ›

They think it is easier

If you speak French to someone and they speak English well, they may just assume it is easier to speak English together. This especially applies if they can tell your French isn't great and they know their English is better.

What is Les incompetent in French? ›

Linnie was probably just brushing up on her basic French before their trip to Paris, but since "les incompétents" just translates to "the incompetent ones" it's not as impressive as she makes it seem — even if it does confuse Kevin. "Home Alone" is set near Chicago, like many other John Hughes movies.

Do French people say Excusez-moi? ›

As mentioned, “excusez-moi” is the single most common way of saying “excuse me” in French. Use this phrase in all situations where you'd normally say excuse me in English.

Is Je suis desole correct? ›

Je suis désolé(e)

This is the most common way to apologize in the French language. It is the literal translation of the English “I am sorry,” and you will hear it quite often. This is one of the French apologies that can be used in almost any situation, regardless of how formal it is.

Is it excuse my French or pardon my French? ›

Pardon my French, or excuse my French, is an apology for the use of profanity; the expression dates from 1895. Pardon is derived from the old French pardoner meaning, “to grant, forgive.” Find out: Are New Idioms Ever Created?

What is Les Vaches? ›

noun. cow [noun] the female of cattle used for giving milk.

What does Jemapel mean in French? ›

Literally, “I call myself”.

Is Moi aussi correct? ›

Moi aussi (me too) is used in affirmative constructions, while moi non plus (me neither) is used in negative ones.

How do you politely refuse in French? ›

Non merci (No, thank you)

Non merci is used to politely decline something: Voudriez-vous un croque-monsieur ?

What does Je ne suis pas? ›

I don't know.

What is Je Suis Petit? ›

Je suis petite, I am small, or I am little.

What is Je suis ne? ›

je suis né(e) : I was bornnaître, passé composé

How do you say I don't know what you're saying French? ›

You don't know what you're saying. Tu ne sais pas ce que tu dis.

How do you use Excuse my French? ›

said when you are pretending to be sorry for using a word that may be considered offensive: Pardon my French, but that's a damned shame!

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